How to deal with a husband's domestic violence against his wife

Domestic violence may seem uncommon, but it is actually a problem that has always been happening around us. Many female friends have suffered greatly from this, but they are always afraid to speak out. So the relevant media organizations should do more publicity for such vulnerable groups, encourage them to face it bravely, and take reasonable and legal measures to deal with it. So what should you do if your husband often commits domestic violence? How should you deal with domestic violence against your wife by your husband? Let me summarize some experiences and share them with you.

1. Avoid getting beaten.

Domestic violence men can generally be divided into three types: those who act crazy after drinking, those who bully the good and fear the evil, and those who are soft-hearted and not hard-hearted. Finding out what kind of man you have and not going against him is the most crucial step to protect yourself. If you know that a man will go crazy and hit people after drinking, then you should hide yourself, even if it's just locking yourself in the bathroom. Even if he smashes the house to pieces, don't go out to watch, so that you won't get beaten. If you know that a man is soft-hearted, then when he gets angry, don't argue with him. In fact, there is no point in arguing. At this time, being stubborn is just asking for a beating. If you know that a man bullies the good and fears the evil, then don't just hide in the bed and cry when you get beaten, otherwise there will be many next times waiting for you.

Second, if you are subjected to domestic violence for the first time, you must fight back with all your might.

Let me tell you about something I saw with my own eyes. At that time, I had just graduated and joined the company. One day at work, several people suddenly rushed in and pinned a male colleague to the ground and beat him up. I was surprised at the time why he didn't resist. After the beating, he didn't run away, but went straight to the leader's office. Later I learned that this man had beaten his wife the day before, and his wife's family came and beat him up. Many years later, I asked him once if he had beaten his wife again. He said no. He emphasized that he was not such an uncultured man, but he also did not deny that he was afraid of his wife's family. The purpose of writing this story is not to encourage women to find someone to beat up their husbands after being beaten. It should not be difficult for women to see from this story that the attitude after being beaten for the first time is particularly important. If one does not resist to the best of his or her ability the first time, there will soon be a second, third, or fourth beating.

For example, if you are walking on the street and are suddenly beaten by a madman, will you resist? I think he will definitely do so. So, when you are beaten by your husband for the first time, just treat him as a passerby on the street. It is true that women cannot beat men, but that does not mean they should give up resistance. They must use all their strength to burst out, biting and scratching people. The saddest thing is that the first thing a woman thinks of after being beaten is her face. A few days ago, there was a woman who had been abused several times. She said that every time she didn't dare to cry loudly, for fear that the neighbors would hear and laugh at her. I was speechless when I heard it. This man can do such a shameless thing as beating a woman, and still defend his face. Isn't it a joke? It would be better if I could scratch his whole face.