Symptoms of masochistic personality, eight of which are shown here

Masochistic personality often occurs in women, because girls are always in a weak position in life. They cannot express their pain and instead keep it in their hearts. Their anger is often ignored by others, which leads to fatigue. Masochistic personality must attract people's attention, so let us learn about the symptoms and manifestations of masochistic personality today.

Let us explore the root causes of this type of personality distortion: they never had normal family warmth and love in their childhood, their fathers had serious violent tendencies and would beat their wives and daughters at will, and their mothers were weak in character and always tolerated, gave in and accepted everything. She accepted a distorted emotional model from the two most important adults in her life very early on, that women are destined to be dominated and even bullied by men. The unfair punishment she received due to family discord taught her to blame herself (she must have done something wrong to make the adults angry), and at the same time she got used to being obedient. These thinking and behavior patterns that originate from childhood are internalized into the subconscious and will have immeasurable destructive effects on adult life. Without psychological reconstruction, they will almost inevitably repeat their mother's fate.

Its main manifestations:

1) Willingness to remain in a relationship that exploits, abuses, or places others in a superior position, and foregoing opportunities to change that situation;

2) Believe that they should sacrifice their own interests for the sake of others;

3) Refuse help, gifts or favors from others to avoid becoming a burden to others;

4) Feeling unworthy of success and honors, and excessively worrying about not being able to take on and fulfill new responsibilities;

5) Only consider your own shortcomings and fail to see your own strengths;

6) Always pessimistic about the future and always think of the bad things about the past and present;

7) They would find it incredible to receive unexpected favors or make a small fortune;

8) I always agree to everything others say and don’t know how to refuse, even if I don’t like to do it.