8 ways to win a man's heart

1. You must know him well enough

If you want to tie a man's heart, too many vows are useless. After the failure of the first marriage. They have become very mature. Instead of making promises, it's better to get to know your man realistically. Because a man who makes a promise to you is more capable than you. There is a saying: I would rather believe that there are ghosts in the world than believe a man’s broken mouth. Although the words are a bit extreme, they are enough to illustrate one point: a man’s oath cannot be trusted. The key is to understand the men around you more realistically.

2. Care for him in details

When marrying someone, do you have to pay attention to what the other person likes and dislikes? In general, details are very important. My friend said that now she pays attention to every detail of her husband's daily life. What to do at each time, what time to get up, etc. A friend said that only when you understand the other person's habits and hobbies can you have more tacit understanding with him, life will not be boring, and we can feel the importance of each other.

3. First, capture his stomach

When my friend was first married, she was very concerned about her reputation and said, “I never cook for myself and mostly eat out.” I believe that few young women would cook by themselves. After getting divorced, my friend bought a book and learned how to cook. “I first learned to cook a few dishes that my husband likes, and I’m still learning the rest,” my friend said confidently. Because smart women know: although the restaurant is good, it cannot satisfy their men. There is a saying that makes sense: If you want to win a man’s heart, you must first win his stomach. A man will be loyal to you because of your cooking. Do you believe it?

4. Remember to act coquettishly

Some women act like a spoiled child at every turn. At first, men may be patient and tolerant, and be considerate and caring. But over time, they start to treat it as a perfunctory act. In the end, even the women themselves feel that acting like a spoiled child is a luxury. This is because this kind of woman does not know when to act coquettishly and at the right time. She just uses coquettishness as a way to show weakness and uses it excessively. Therefore, in the eyes of men, this is equivalent to being unreasonable and has nothing to do with innocence and cuteness.

5. Learn to respect his relatives and friends

Men are born with filial piety in their bones. If you violate this nerve, it is equivalent to falling into an abyss from which there is no return. So, you have to get used to getting along with his family and treat them from his perspective as much as possible. Such actions will not only win you the favor and praise of his family, but also gain his reward.

6. Let him know that you love him

You can give him a loving breakfast before he goes to work. No matter it is mushy or burnt, he will feel it tastes sweet. Give him a sweet kiss of love. Call him "dear husband" before going out and take the initiative to greet him when you get home. Giving him the warmth of home is also giving yourself the same return, because no matter where he is, he will always miss the goodness of home and your kindness.

7. Give him some free space

If a man's circle of friends is too small, there will not be much room for career and future development. If a man has too few friends, he will feel more lonely and his temper will become worse and worse. Therefore, you need to give him some free space so that he can manage his circle of friends and career well. You can participate in it happily, or you can let it go at will, but don't let it stay out of your sight for too long.

8. Learn to be tolerant and understanding

Tolerance and understanding are the best ways to resolve conflicts. They can allow new cracks to heal and prevent new wounds from forming scars. However, if this cannot be done well, then even if the cracks heal, there will still be cracks, and even if the pain is gone, there will still be scars.