How to build courage

The healthy growth of a child not only refers to his physical body, but also to his spiritual world. Only when these two are combined can it be said that your child is growing up healthily. However, many parents will find that their children are timid. For example, they are afraid to sleep alone at night, or dare not say hello when they meet other people with their parents. These are all manifestations of their children's timidity.

However, in this age of the survival of the fittest, if a child is timid, it will have a very serious impact on the child's development in the future, especially when the child enters society. Therefore, many parents want to cultivate their children's courage from an early age. So, how can children exercise their courage?

The factors that determine a child's courage and character include innate temperament and acquired training. But acquired training can play a leading role.

1. Don’t show your disappointment in your child’s performance. This will only increase his inferiority complex.

2. Encourage him to express himself more and give him some opportunities. For example, telling a story or verbally describing what you did.

3. Try to compare him less with children who are more extroverted than him, although you can encourage him to learn from extroverted children.

4. Do not encourage quiet or introverted behavior in front of him, or praise other children's timid tendencies.

5. Don’t interfere or even give instructions if he can complete it independently.

6. As long as you think there is no danger, encourage him to go out and play with other children by himself.

7. When encountering setbacks, let him try to deal with it himself.

8. There is another very important point. Let him taste the joy of being bold and expressing himself. As long as he develops an interest, he will try it himself. I believe that if he is given more space and training, he will gradually build up confidence and dare to express himself. Many successful people were shy when they were young, but later achieved success after consciously overcoming their character weaknesses.

After reading the introduction in this article, I believe that all parents and friends know how children should develop their courage. However, I need to remind you that courage cannot be developed in a short period of time. If you feel that your child is not very courageous, you need to start with daily education and let your child's courage gradually grow.