What kind of personality does a person with a messy room have?

Female friends are generally more fond of cleanliness and keep their living environment clean. This is the nature of women. Most male friends do not like cleaning, so their rooms are relatively messy. This is also a factor that creates a contrast between the rooms of boyfriends and girlfriends. If a person's room is messy, it gives people the impression that this person is sloppy, careless and rebellious.

I wonder if parents have noticed that when we look at a child’s room, we can actually see what kind of personality the child has, because a person’s personality is generally reflected in his behavior or small details in life. For parents, understanding their children's personality traits can help them deepen their understanding of their children. What kind of condition is your child's room in? What kind of personality does the person with a messy room have? Take 2 minutes to take a look.

1. A clean and tidy room - a child who pursues perfection

From the day the child has his own bedroom, he will start thinking about how to make his bedroom more cozy, and he will always set aside a fixed time period on Saturdays and Sundays to tidy up the room.

Parents basically don't need to worry about these children because their bedrooms are always clean and tidy, their clothes are in order, there is not a speck of dust on the table, their favorite posters are on the wall, and their bookshelves are neatly organized with books. I put everything I have used back to its original place, I like to organize things, I get up on time every day when I hear the alarm clock, and I live an orderly life.

If your child belongs to this category, he must be a very outstanding child. Usually it manifests itself in the pursuit of perfection and having one's own principles. I like to demand perfection in everything, and to see things through to the end. If they like something, they must do it well. Their feelings are pure. They have high demands on friendship and family, and even higher demands on themselves.

Even though I know I can't be perfect, I am still constantly striving to do better. Always working hard to create a perfect life. They voluntarily restrain themselves and voluntarily pursue a better self. Once they make a mistake, their inner supervision mechanism will be activated, and they will begin to reflect on their behavior, where the problem occurred, how to correct it, and how to deal with it next time.

Long-term self-discipline makes it easy for them to maintain a high level of discipline. Self-discipline allows them to always move in a positive direction. From this perspective, perfectionist children are like possessing a treasure that others don't have.

This type of children have a happy childhood, hardworking adolescence, hardworking middle age and happy old age.

2. Messy and orderly room - children with flexible thinking

Oops, don't clean my room. My own things were all arranged properly, but they became a mess if you moved them.

These words came out as soon as his parents cleaned up his room. Looking around, I saw a pair of football socks under the messy clothes, the ruler was at the back of the drawer, and the books on the bookshelf were not sorted by type, but by the color of the cover.

You advised him to clean up the house, but he said no need, he knew where his things were. Occasionally take out a set of CDs from under the bed, a box of chocolates from the closet, and a pair of sneakers from under the sofa. You feel helpless, but he says that this is the rhythm of chaos and the ecological atmosphere of living.

The rooms of these children may look messy in your eyes, but in their own eyes, they can always find what they want.

If your child's room belongs to this category, then he must be very smart and must be the "leader of the class", "king of the children", or "class cadre". The intelligence of these children is reflected in their strong adaptability, including competitiveness, innovation, communication, adaptability, cooperation, and research ability. These are "multi-intelligent" children.

They have flexible thinking, which is mainly reflected in their ability to find effective solutions to the problems they face in a relatively short period of time.

For example, the story of Cao Chong weighing an elephant illustrates what innovative thinking is: Sun Quan gave Cao Cao an elephant. The ministers thought of many ways to weigh it, but none of them worked. At this time, Cao Chong came out and said he had a solution. He asked someone to lead the elephant onto the boat. When the boat was stable, he made a mark on the side of the boat where the water level was. Then he led the elephant to the shore and loaded the boat with stones. When the boat reached its original size, he stopped loading stones and weighed the stones, thus knowing the weight of the elephant.

In this example, Cao Chong demonstrated flexibility of thought because he was able to come up with an effective solution in a short period of time. If your child's room is messy but tidy, congratulations, just be happy at home.

3. Messy room - casual child

Do you get mad and shout every morning: "Mom, where are my shoes? Did you wash my clothes? What should I wear?"

You rummage through your closet and find a pile of clothes, half dirty and half clean. The pointer on the wall keeps urging you to hurry up. But the child is still worried about not being able to find socks.

Their rooms are always messy and they can never find what they are looking for. Even if you work hard to tidy up the house, it will be back to its original mess within three days, and you can only follow behind and clean up again and again.

This type of child is more rebellious, playful, and likes to talk in class. But in fact, everyone looks at children from a different perspective, and when you look at a mountain from the front, you see a peak. For example, a person with a carefree personality may be careless in doing things, but he is not fussy about details, has an open mind, and is casual and easy to get along with.

This type of children has the most good friends. They are lively, talkative, warm and generous. They are sincere in treating people and do not care about gains and losses. He has his own ideas but will accommodate others and likes harmony. They often have their own opinions, do not follow the crowd, and have their own personality and confidence.

If your child is of this type, then he must be very filial, considerate, and ready to enjoy life when he is old.

Every child has good and bad sides to his or her personality, but some children's personalities are more suitable for career success, some children's personalities are more conducive to family unity, and some children's personalities are more conducive to making friends from all over the world.

We can interpret the child’s personality from the state of the child’s room, see the child’s personality traits, and give them a better education.