Why don't you like to talk

Everyone has different personality traits. Some people may be extroverted and talkative, while others may not like to talk. So why don’t they like to talk? It may be because they are more introverted, or it may be because they have not met someone to whom they can confide their inner thoughts. Not being talkative may also be related to the nature of the work. For example, people in the entertainment industry tend to be more talkative. Of course, being quiet can be changed.

1. Be willing to change yourself.

Anyone who wants to change himself must recognize his own shortcomings subjectively. Only in this way can he make changes. If he does not recognize the problem, he will certainly not take it seriously.

2. Take the initiative to communicate with others.

Being introverted may mean that you lack the skills to communicate with others. These skills are gradually summarized and honed in practice. Don't close yourself off, but actively communicate with the outside world. Learn more and communicate more, and you will naturally improve.

3. Travel appropriately.

Reading thousands of books and traveling thousands of miles, it is not enough to just learn knowledge from books, you also need to go out more and see the outside world. Experience will make you more confident and gain confidence in communicating with others.

4. Practice your eloquence every day.

If it is because of our own defects in expressive ability, we can exercise our expressive ability appropriately. This expressive ability is the basis for communicating with others, so only proper exercise can bring gains.

5. Read books and newspapers.

A person who is rich in poetry and books is naturally elegant. We must take some time to read books and absorb more knowledge. This will make us more knowledgeable. Then our conversation will naturally have connotation, which will allow us to dare to express ourselves and show ourselves.

6. Participate in group activities.

Boys must participate in more group activities, don’t stay at home all day, go out more often to interact with people, and through communicating with each other, their personalities will gradually become more lively and cheerful.

7. Make more good friends.

Boys must have a few close friends. Such good friends are very important to the whole life. Without friends, they are bound to become withdrawn, uncommunicative, and less and less willing to communicate with the outside world.