What psychological effects will frequent scolding have on children?

Most Chinese parents are accustomed to giving their children strict education, believing that strict teachers can produce excellent students and can help their children develop better. In fact, this is just the concept of the older generation. For the new generation, beating and scolding children will cause a lot of psychological shadows, which is not conducive to their future personality development and may even cause mental illness. Therefore, doctors do not recommend beating or scolding children. So, what psychological problems will be caused by frequently beating and scolding children?

1. Parents who often beat and scold their children will make their children fragile. Children who are often beaten and scolded by their parents will become alienated from their parents. Because they are afraid of being beaten, they will obey their parents no matter whether their parents are right or wrong. Over time, this will make children become inferior and cowardly. Emotionally, they will gradually become alienated from their parents.

2. Parents who often beat and scold their children will make their children feel lonely and helpless. Children who are often beaten and scolded by their parents will show lack of self-confidence. When doing things, they will doubt their abilities. Children who are often beaten and scolded by their parents at home will also be unwilling to communicate with other children or play with them.

3. Children who are often beaten and scolded by their parents at home will gradually develop the habit of lying. Because children are often beaten and scolded, their physical and mental health is harmed. In order to avoid being beaten, they often say things to deceive their parents. Over time, children develop the habit of lying.

4. Children who are often beaten and scolded by their parents are likely to develop a bad temper and an irritable personality. Because parents often beat and scold their children, it will form an illusion in the children's young minds that all problems can be solved through violence. Therefore, children will gradually develop a bad temper and often complain.

5. Some children are more introverted. When parents are getting along with such children, it is best not to beat or scold them casually, because they are more sensitive in character and are unwilling to reveal their true feelings to their classmates and family members. If introverted children are often beaten and scolded, it will make the children more depressed.

6. When children are wronged or encounter setbacks outside, it is best for parents not to beat or scold them when they return home. This is because children will not be very happy after being wronged. If parents beat and scold them without asking the reasons, it will make the children feel unbearable. Once the child's tolerance is exceeded, the child may do something extreme.