Signs that a boy is faking a breakup

Boyfriends and girlfriends always have a very good relationship in the early stages of their relationship, but as they get to know each other more and more, their conflicts will begin to emerge. It is said that announcing your departure to the world is actually a temptation. This statement applies not only to women, but also to men. Some men will choose to break up when they have conflicts with each other, but this may be a test. Let’s take a look at the signs of men faking a breakup.

1. What are the signs that your boyfriend is faking a breakup?

1. Stay connected

Generally speaking, when girls propose to break up, most of the time it is a fake breakup and they are just saying it out of anger. Boys are often more decisive. If they really break up, they will not contact the woman again and will start a new relationship. If a boy keeps in touch with you after saying he's breaking up, it's definitely a fake breakup.

2. Easily jealous

When a boy likes you, he will be jealous of you, and the same is true after a fake breakup. If a boy gets angry when he sees you chatting with other boys or when other boys send you home, he definitely can't let you go. This means that the relationship between you two has not been broken, it’s just a minor quarrel, and you will eventually make up.

3. Ask for your news

You might as well ask your friends or besties if your boyfriend has asked them about you. If the other party is faking a breakup, he must still care about you and is too embarrassed to reconcile with you, so he will inquire about you indirectly. If this is the case, you might as well give the other person a way out and save the relationship. When two people quarrel, one of them has to give in first in order to maintain the relationship.

4. Check your Moments

If they are pretending to break up, the other person may post something on their Moments to get your attention. For example, pretending that you have a new relationship or a romantic partner, or taking photos with the opposite sex. In fact, the other person does this just to attract your attention. Slamming the door loudly does not mean they really want to leave. A real departure is always silent. The more he does this, the more it shows that he doesn't want to break up.

2. How to deal with your boyfriend’s fake breakup

1. Don’t be stressed

Now that you have decided that you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, what should you do? Let me tell you what not to do. Don't keep calling, texting, and leaving messages. Doing this will only make him further away from you. No one wants to be with someone who is desperate, especially when you’ve been apart for so long.

2. Take time to heal

This is important for any man or woman who is breaking up. Give the other person time to breathe. Don't call him, don't text him, just go see him no matter how much you miss him. The point is, if your wounds aren't healed, you won't succeed. Moreover, during this time, you can also think clearly whether you really want to be with him or whether you are too dependent on him so you adapt to life without him. It is recommended that you spend 3 weeks thinking it over, and then it is time for you to make a decision and negotiate with him. Until then, wait a while. Immerse yourself in your hobbies and use this time to do things you don’t have time to do. If your ex contacts you, respond politely and don't talk too long. Tell them that you will be separated from them for a while now, and you will come back to them at a certain time.

3. Wait 3 weeks

To rekindle the relationship, it's better to call him rather than text him because it's hard to judge people's tone through texting. Also, it would be best if you called him when he's unlikely to answer the phone. Leaving an indifferent message on the voicemail is like telling him: There is a discount at the convenience store you like to go to, and I just came to tell you. You want to let him know that you are thinking about him, but you can't say it out loud. But when he calls you back, you must be positive, sincere and enthusiastic. End the conversation briefly and tell him I'm done, instead of having coffee together in the afternoon.

4. Positive attitude

Give yourself some confidence, because maybe he still likes you very much. Always stay positive when you're on the phone or talking to him. This is not the time to discuss the pain of your breakup. If things start to get awkward between the two of you, make an excuse and leave. The longer you are with him, the more damage it will cause. Even though you have a chance to get back together with him now, there's still a lot you need to do.