How to best handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

How to resolve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a problem that many families will face. If the method is not correct, the relationship between the two may become increasingly tense, especially for the daughter-in-law. As a young person, she should be more understanding, and the two also need more communication.

1. You must show your love for your husband in front of your mother-in-law. But you should also let your mother-in-law know that you love her as much as your husband;

2. Speak more good things about your husband in front of your mother-in-law. Every mother doesn’t like to hear others speak ill of her son.

3. You must be tolerant in front of your mother-in-law, because every mother who has worked hard to raise her son, but you can get him done in just a few days, will definitely feel like his son has been robbed. That is what people often say (husband is the world, son is everything);

4. Always stand on the side of your mother-in-law in front of her. If there is a conflict between your husband and her, you must criticize your husband and comfort her. Because many mothers-in-law will think that some changes in their sons are due to the presence of a daughter-in-law, so you must let your mother-in-law know that you are on the same side with her, so that she will help you when you have difficulties in the future;

5. Don’t be affectionate with your husband in front of your mother-in-law, as that will make her jealous. Your mother-in-law raised your husband since he was a child, but how many times has her son kissed his mother on the face since he grew up? So be careful, if you want to be intimate, close the door and go ahead;

6. Make sure your mother-in-law feels like you are her daughter. Treat her the way you treat your own mother. You can be a little bit irritable in front of your own mother, but be moderate with your mother-in-law, because it may cause dissatisfaction and affect the relationship between you and your husband.

7. You should fully demonstrate her importance to you, which will give your mother-in-law a sense of accomplishment and satisfy her love for her son;

8. Sometimes you should learn to act like a spoiled child in front of your mother-in-law. You don't have to be as strong as a shield in front of her. You can't tolerate any sand in your eyes. Pay attention to big things and ignore small things. In this way, your mother-in-law will worry about you because of your ignorance, and admire you for your independent thinking.

9. Don’t complain to your husband when you have problems with your mother-in-law. That will only increase your husband’s distress and may make your relationship more complicated. Try to communicate with your mother-in-law yourself and tell your husband more about the happy things with your mother-in-law. He will trust your ability to handle things more and cherish you more because you are a rare good wife.