How do newlyweds get along with each other, secrets to keep a fresh marriage

In order to have a happy and long-lasting marriage, you need to understand some ways of getting along with each other, especially newlyweds. Many newlyweds don’t know each other very well yet. They need to be considerate of each other in daily life, respect their elders, and it would be even more perfect if they had a baby as soon as possible.

1. Mutual understanding:

When you are married, you can no longer do whatever you want like before. No matter how young you are, you have to restrain your desire to play. Right after getting married, he leaves his wife at home and goes out to exercise and have fun with his bad friends. How sad would his wife be? The wife went shopping with her best friend without considering her husband's thoughts, bought a bunch of things and didn't answer her husband's call. At noon, when she could no longer carry the things, she remembered her husband's kindness and quickly called her husband to flatter him and ask for help. Do you think your husband is a nanny? The nanny still needs to be paid! Since you are married, you should be more considerate of each other, take each other seriously and have a sense of existence! Don't let the other person's family and friends say you are ignorant. Everyone has a playful heart, but it must be controlled;

2. Respect and love the elders:

The elders here are not just parents. There are many only children nowadays, but the previous generation had many brothers and sisters. So respecting the elders here can be said to be respecting the brothers and sisters of the parents, and some also include grandparents. As a new member of a family, respecting elders is a must. When receiving red envelopes from elders after the wedding, you must not be too excited like a child, but should express your gratitude politely. The red envelopes can be given to the mother-in-law or husband for temporary safekeeping. Even though it is just a small amount given to others for safekeeping, it also reflects that the new daughter-in-law is more sensible. Large families may have a door-to-door ceremony after the wedding, so you should talk to your husband, mother-in-law, or someone in your husband's family who is older than you and has experience in marriage to learn how to do it. There may be sacrifices to ancestors, and you may need to get up early to offer tea to all family members. Remember to use polite language, don't shake your hands and don't be afraid. Just think that you only need to kneel down to offer tea and it's no big deal. The bride has to return to her parents’ home three days after the wedding. As a husband, you naturally cannot let the elders gossip about him. Only by bringing gifts and accompanying your wife home can you be a good son-in-law. It would be best if you can drink, play chess, or play mahjong, or something like that. If you can learn a few of your father-in-law's hobbies, you will immediately become a celebrity in your wife's family, making her proud and not losing face. That's a must! A son-in-law is half a son, and a son-in-law who makes his father-in-law happy is more than half a son. Although his wife may be jealous, it is also a happy thing for her husband to be liked by his parents.

3. Have children as soon as possible:

After the wedding, parents’ first priority is definitely to have children. Especially the boy’s parents, they try all kinds of ways to find remedies to have a grandson. After all, the elderly still believe that grandsons are their own people, and granddaughters will belong to someone else in the future. Even if the newlyweds have no intention of having children, they still have to start preparing, especially when living with the mother-in-law. How can they not be obedient? If you really don't want to have children in the next few years because you are too young, it is best to discuss this with your husband so that you will have a way to answer your parents-in-law if they ask. However, the best age for conception is before the age of 35. Older mothers not only have poor physical conditions, but also may not give birth to healthy children. Therefore, it is better to have a baby as soon as possible after marriage.