Easily capture men aged 20 to 40

20to24: Restlessness and anxiety

"The age of early 20s is a transitional period for men, when they tend to fall in love quickly and withdraw just as quickly." Is it really related to age? That's right! Boys in the transitional period, on the one hand, continue to produce male hormones that make them desire the opposite sex, and on the other hand, they can't let go of the free life they are used to enjoying.

What is the reason? Dr. Li said: "It is obvious that he is not fully mature at this age. In other words, his skills in handling emotional relationships are still insufficient." "Civil wars" between couples of this age will frequently break out. There is no need to worry too much. This "civil war" will sometimes stimulate each other's passion.

Romance Index: If you are not his first love, he will be more attracted to you. “He will place you on the lotus throne and worship you devoutly as if he were facing the Bodhisattva Guanyin,” Dr. Li said half-jokingly.

Be prepared for sex, as boys of this age are often so energetic that you'll be surprised. Maybe its "quality" may not be satisfactory, but its "quantity" will definitely bring you great satisfaction. Experts point out: "The physiological structure determines that men can only express their feelings through sexual behavior during this period." - What's important is that he loves you.

At the beginning of the love declaration, he may give you a flower every day and feed your pet every day, but this does not mean that he will always be willing to do these things silently just for you. He will gradually become happy to run into other friends and go for a drink together, or go hunting together on the weekend, or even arrange to travel together for a few weeks. "Oh my God! He doesn't love me as much as before!" - Don't worry unnecessarily, listen to what the experts say - "This is determined by the group consciousness of young people. Today's young people are increasingly moving away from the constraints of tradition, and collective behavior has become a standard in their subconscious."

Men of this age usually place great importance on their instinctive reactions, so Dr. Li offers us a secret: the best trick to gain their love as soon as possible and make this relationship "a diamond is forever" is to "give him space and remove the constraints." If he feels no pressure when being with you, he will not leave you easily.

25to29: Dilemma

Most urban men start to have emotional problems around the age of 27. 25 years old is a sign that indicates a man has entered a new stage, a stage where he begins to face his life with a serious and solemn attitude. Dr. Li said: "At this age, he will struggle between his own interests and the interests of others around him. At this time, if he finds the right person, he will not give up easily, but he also does not want to lose other things he already has."

Romance Index: For him who has some emotional experience, your relationship must have a certain degree of realism. Men of this age attach great importance to equality and balance between each other. More and more men of this age tend to choose cohabitation before marriage to test the relationship between themselves and their partners. Generally speaking, they will not give up everything and fight desperately to win a woman's heart. The concept of romance in their minds is far less strong and less rigid than when they were in their early 20s.

The psychological and physiological maturity of sexual pleasure makes men of this age pay more attention to mutual adjustment and cooperation in sexual life, in order to achieve the goal of common pleasure with their lovers.

Love Declaration: A man approaching 30 hopes that his girlfriend will be like him, with her own opinions, her own career, and her own life. They already have a certain sense of responsibility and can calm down and think carefully. They hope to find a partner with whom they can live and grow together, rather than just a playmate.

For men of this age group, it is time for them to get married, but the "fear of marriage" that comes with it makes the behavior of quite a few men seem particularly strange and bizarre. However, this is not enough to make him lovable. You don't have to worry, as you are beautiful, generous, gentle and kind - he just doesn't want to make a decision so rashly, which is also a manifestation of responsibility. "The vast majority of men will eventually get married. Generally speaking, they will gradually be conquered by your charm and completely get rid of their 'fear of marriage'.

30to34: A sudden turn of events

After the age of thirty, a man's social circle will gradually shrink and he will no longer like to have fun as much as when he was young.

Recent survey data show that 55% of men in their 20s go out more than three times a week on average, but when they reach 30, only 15% of men go out three times a week on average. "When a man reaches 30, his desire to start a family will gradually change. Now is the time to "take him into your pocket". Women must not miss this golden opportunity, because at this time he is already quite mature, experienced, and energetic.

What he needs is a woman who can respect him, appreciate him, and discover more of his strengths. Economic independence and maturity make men more self-centered. That is to say, as a woman, if you try to change him, he will resist you.

Romance Index The most romantic thing I can think of is growing old together with you. "At this age, he can already show his casual romance in your daily interactions. Of course, in addition to free romance, with a certain economic foundation, he may also go on vacation abroad with you, enjoy a French meal, and enjoy the "corrupt" romance.

Since he has no age advantage, he will spend more time trying to please you in other ways to show that he is not at a disadvantage in the competition with young people. "The beneficiaries of competition are consumers" - rejoice, because you are that lucky consumer!

When it comes to sex, a 30-year-old man will keep in mind an advertising slogan, which is - "Win with quality"! Skill is his strong point, and the frequency of sex life will not be very high, but the intensity should be guaranteed - this is the result of accumulated experience.

As the self-centered era of love declaration fades away, men over thirty will shift their focus from "once had" to "forever". Even if he is not talking about marriage with you yet, he will solemnly propose to you in the near future. As long as you are what he wants and what he desires, you don't have to worry about him not "returning to his roots"!

In the most general sense, the following theory is absolutely true for men over 30: he will be eager to find a woman to accept himself. In addition to salary, car and position, he needs her to prove the value of his life.

35 and above: Mature harvest

Men who are a little older tend to be less expressive in their joy or pain and to be more self-disciplined. This also naturally affects their search for a partner in life.

Men of this age group are usually very cautious when making their relationship clear to women because they have often hit a wall, fallen, or even been injured many times in the past years. This caution is a natural expression of emotional tempering. Most men over 35 will come across as aggressive when dating younger girls because they have more life experience. Telling girls who come for a date where to go and what to do is a "special skill" of this type of "old" men. They are always confident in their decisions and become role models for young girls.

Romance Index Men at this age know how women want to be taken seriously. At the same time, they also know that in the "stock market" of emotions, their own stock prices are no longer at the peak of the K-shaped chart. Therefore, once he falls into the love net you have created, he will do his best to show his courtesy to you and try to "sell" himself to you as soon as possible.

It is undeniable that a 35-year-old man's ability to secrete male hormones has begun to decline, and he may no longer be as "courageous" as a young man in his 20s. However, he has a wealth that young people cannot buy with money - experience.

Declaration of Love His desire to start a family reached its peak during this period. At this age, he will be as eager as you to engage in real family life.

Although he may be easily captured at this point, there are still several potential obstacles that may prevent you from signing the Happiness Contract. Think about it, a man at this age may have had a failed marriage. So, facing either the "heaven" of a successful marriage or the "hell" of a failed marriage, does he still have the courage to take a step forward and accept the test of fate again? You know, the "second injury" is often the most fatal!

For example, if he is fortunate enough to have no experience of marriage, he may still enjoy his current status as a "diamond bachelor" and be unwilling to live with others. In short, you may encounter all kinds of problems when dating a man over 35. How about it, are you confident to take up the challenge?

Among men aged 20 to 29, 44% said they would only consider getting married after living together before marriage.

The average age for men to become fathers is 28.

After the age of 24, male sperm activity decreases at a rate of 3% per year.

Among men aged 21 to 29, 70% said they were willing to sacrifice family time in exchange for higher income.

Among men aged 35 to 39, 20% have never been married.