How to deal with children's adolescent rebellion correctly

With the continuous development of modern society, people are paying more and more attention to psychological issues. For a teenager aged fifteen or sixteen, adolescent rebellion should be the most prominent psychological phenomenon at this stage of life. Everyone has gone through adolescence. Middle-aged people who are now parents can think back to their own mental states during adolescence.

This will be of great help in correctly viewing and dealing with your child’s adolescent rebellious problems. Adolescent rebellious psychology often occurs around the age of fifteen or sixteen. Children of this age, whether boys or girls, no matter how docile and obedient they were before, will become like a different person during this period, showing resistance and rebellious emotions towards everything. Especially for parents.

Everyone has different physiological and psychological characteristics in the different processes of growth. After puberty, people's thinking will change from previous figurative thinking to abstract thinking. The most important feature of this is the enhancement of "self" consciousness. The existence of "self" must be reflected everywhere, so that a strong resistance to parents, teachers and the whole society is manifested.

For children who are in the rebellious stage of adolescence, correct guidance from parents is crucial. If the wrong handling methods are used, children will develop pathological personalities such as suspicion, paranoia, indifference, unsociability, and opposition to society towards people and things, which will lead to the loss of their ideals, weakening of their will, negative work attitude, passive learning, and sluggish life. Further development may also transform into criminal psychology and pathological psychology.

Therefore, at this stage, parents should spend more time with their children, listen to their ideas like friends, discuss family matters with their children as equals, and if they are really too busy at work, they should greet their children and gain their understanding. Cultivate more common hobbies with your children, be their friends, and subtly guide their outlook on life and world view.