If love makes you tired, should you break up?

Most people will only be together if they love each other, but love and being together are not equal, and being together is not necessarily necessary if you love each other. Because if the two people have incompatible personalities, forcing them to be together will only increase the burden on each other and erode their love for each other. Some people in a relationship find that although they love their partner very much, they feel very tired. What should they do in this situation?

If you are too tired, you will feel burdened and your life will lose its meaning. We are together to love each other, not to torture each other. If the pressure is too great, it is better to break up and give both parties their own space

In life, it is best to let go of these four kinds of love that make you particularly "tired"!

1. Don’t care about the other person’s feelings

If a woman loves making friends and often chats with the opposite sex on WeChat for several hours, and is still chatting at eleven or twelve at night, then the man will have opinions and views, and will check the woman's mobile phone. This shows that this is a manifestation of the man's care for the woman, and the man is worried that the woman will be abducted by the opposite sex. Faced with this situation, if the woman does not understand the man's views and feelings, and the man feels that the woman does not care about his feelings, the two will have disputes. Over time, if the woman often does this, the man will feel that such love is particularly tiring and that the woman does not have him in her heart. If a woman has him in her heart, she will not ignore the man's feelings and chat with the opposite sex so frequently.

2. Not considering the other party

If a woman often orders a man around, for example, asks the man to help her move a cabinet, and the man helps her move it, but the woman feels that it is not good to leave it there, so she orders the man to move the cabinet to another room, and does this five or six times, then in fact, the man feels that the woman does not consider him. Because women do not understand the hard work of men in this matter, moving it back and forth several times will consume a lot of physical strength, and women only care that it is better to put the cabinet there, but ignore the self-esteem of men. Because they have been ordered around five or six times, if women do this often, men will feel that women treat them as servants and have opinions and views on women.

3. Disrespect for the other party

If a man often disrespects a woman, for example, speaks ill of her or describes her with unpleasant words, then the woman will feel aggrieved and think the man is going too far. The woman will be suspicious because the man does not know how to respect her. If a man truly loves a woman, he will not ignore this aspect. Over time, if a man often behaves like this, the woman feels that the man does not like her, and the man shows no sign of correcting himself, then the woman will feel tiring to be with the man.

4. Not knowing how to keep a distance from the opposite sex

If a man does not know how to keep a distance from the opposite sex, it means that there is not only a woman in his heart. If a man deliberately gets close to the opposite sex, it means that his love for women is not exclusive, and women will mind it. Because women are unwilling to accept unexclusive love, over time, if a man does not care about the distance between him and other opposite sexes, women feel that the man cannot give her the love she wants.