Will children inherit timidity from their parents?

A child's mind is like a blank sheet of paper, relying entirely on the guidance and instruction of the parents. Therefore, the child's character determines the character of the parents. If the parents are timid and fearful, then the children they educate will naturally be similar to them. Therefore, character is influential, and it is important for parents to guide their children correctly.

The mind of a young child is a world that confuses adults. Things or phenomena that seem ordinary to us may cause children to be afraid of one thing or another.

But it is a miracle that the vast majority of children are able to quickly get rid of their fear and grow up - this is clear evidence that young children have rationality, potential, and the ability to protect and adapt themselves.

From the perspective of family ethics, childbirth is a transmission of love, which is based on the development of the couple's emotions. Before pregnancy, both husband and wife should be well prepared mentally!

1. Adjust the couple's mood before pregnancy

Mood refers to the emotional and mental state of a couple before pregnancy, which has a subtle impact on the health of the mother and child during pregnancy.

Emotions are manifestations of people's reflective psychological activities. In terms of nature, it can be divided into three states: positive, negative or uncertain. The formation of these three states is closely related to the relationship between a person's expectations and realization values. For example, if a couple hopes to get pregnant quickly but fails to do so for some reason, they may develop a negative or uncertain emotional state. On the contrary, if the couple maintain an open and optimistic attitude, they will still maintain a positive emotional state even if they do not get pregnant in time.

Mood is a long-lasting state that colors all other experiences and activities of a person. It has two forms: temporary and stable. The moods of couples are highly contagious to each other. Its formation is related to factors such as society, family, life, work and health. Therefore, being good at coordinating the above-mentioned factors, especially being good at dealing with conflicts between couples caused by the above-mentioned factors, becomes a prerequisite for maintaining a good mood before pregnancy.

2. Create a harmonious psychological environment before pregnancy

For newlyweds, the psychological environment is very rich in content, including the complementarity of temperament and coordination of character between the couple, etc.; the changes in the psychological environment are also often relatively large, which is mostly related to the deepening of understanding of each other caused by the deepening of love. Therefore, generally speaking, this provides favorable conditions for creating a harmonious pre-pregnancy psychological environment.

A harmonious pre-pregnancy psychological environment has several distinct characteristics:

① Husband and wife are good at actively adjusting each other's psychological balance. When one party loses his or her normal psychological state due to temperament or character reasons, the other party is good at guiding the other party to get rid of the situation.

② Be good at arranging a suitable rhythm of life to eliminate certain psychological disorders that are easy to occur.

③ Both parties are good at increasing their "tolerance" in dealing with each other under specific circumstances. Non-principle issues that may normally require appropriate debate can be tolerated at this time and left for resolution at an appropriate time in the future, or other methods can be used to resolve them naturally.