Early signs of domestic violence tendency

Many people have obvious tendencies towards domestic violence, which is closely related to a person's personality and growth environment. We can analyze whether a person has some tendencies towards domestic violence by understanding his or her personality and family conditions. At the same time, domestic violence tendencies sometimes have some early manifestations. So what are the early manifestations of domestic violence tendencies? Let’s take a look at it together.

1

His family is not harmonious

There is a saying that goes: If you want to know what a woman will be like ten years after you marry her, you can look at her mother. That is what she will be like ten years later.

Although it is not true, it reflects how much influence a family has on a person. If there is domestic violence in a person's family and he deliberately conceals it, then there is a high possibility of domestic violence after marriage.

2

Irrational behavior

A rational person thinks more with his brain, while an irrational person often thinks with his fists.

If you find that the other person has difficulty controlling his emotions, cannot accept different opinions, and reacts violently when encountering unpleasant things, it is easy to get into a fight. For example, if someone accidentally bumps into him on the road, how he responds, whether he curses or just laughs it off, can be used to judge whether the other person is rational.

3

Have many bad habits

If he has various bad habits such as taking drugs, visiting prostitutes, gambling, etc., it means that he is a person without self-control. He can't control himself when it comes to his life and health, so how can he control himself when he has violent impulses? Bad habits, like good ones, come in groups.

4

Too much control

A person with a strong desire for control is a self-centered person. Such people often do not consider the feelings of those around them, and only care about their own pleasure and interests. There is a high possibility of a fight if control is lost.

Rough handling of conflicts

When facing problems, a person's true self can be best reflected.

In life, when we encounter some difficulties or frictions with others, we can observe their subtle reactions. If there are violent tendencies, we should pay attention. Sometimes, quarrels and conflicts are the best lie detectors.

5

Self-abuse tendency

People who engage in self-harm generally have psychological problems. Your body is the most precious thing. If you don’t even cherish your own body, how can you expect him to cherish you? I'm afraid he wishes to destroy both of your bodies.