I am getting married soon. What should I do if I suffer from fear of marriage?

Marriage is a necessary step in everyone's growth. After a romantic period of love, the feelings of two people will finally take root, sprout, blossom and bear fruit. How great and sacred it is. However, the few days before the wedding are very difficult for those who suffer from a fear of marriage. So what should you do if you are afraid of getting married? This requires more communication.

1. If you are worried that you may not be suitable for future life, before discussing marriage, you can often visit the other person's home to get to know his (her) family, or talk to him (her) more about his (her) family, and directly or indirectly understand the living habits of future family members. This process is also a process of psychological adaptation.

2. When you have doubts and fears about the long-term sustainability of your marriage, you should keep an open mind and communicate with your partner to dispel these doubts. No matter what happens, such as he suddenly doesn't want to get married, you may feel very uncomfortable, but don't rush to deny the feelings of both parties. You should still ask him (her) more questions. Maybe he (she) has his (her) reasons for worrying and worrying. His (her) worries may not be unnecessary and may sometimes be very practical. If well coordinated, it will be very beneficial to married life.

It is very normal to have fears of one kind or another when facing marriage. You can regard the fear before marriage as "preventive measures", but it is not a stumbling block that prevents you from having a happy marriage. If you are really conflicted inside, don't avoid your psychological problems anymore, face them head on.