What are the common sense about married life?

Many couples have lived together for many years and have good emotional communication. However, there are always some unsatisfactory things in their married life. An unharmonious married life for a long time can cause great harm to the couple's emotions. If it is not effectively resolved for a long time, it may also cause a series of emotional problems. There are many tips for married life, and it is best to communicate in time.

Read a romance novel

Generally speaking, men are easily stimulated by images and women are easily stimulated by words. The descriptions of the two sexes in romance novels can make you indulge in certain sexual fantasies and arouse your sexual desire. So, you could read a romance novel an hour before you're ready to have sex.

Be bold in expressing your demands

Just lying in bed and thinking, "He will caress my sensitive areas soon, I know he will," is not only overly optimistic, but also a waste of wonderful sexual time. The mouth isn't just for kissing; it's also for telling each other what arouses you and what doesn't.

You can also ask him, when he touches, he likes it heavier or lighter? What kind of technique does he think is best? You want to understand what can make him excited and feel comfortable, and he will also be happy to ask you if he needs to improve?

Sleep on silky, shiny sheets

When the flawlessly clean, satin-smooth sheets touch your naked skin, you can't help but be aroused, and the strong sexual desire will indulge all your senses. Silky smooth sheets are just one of a million ways to do that.

Change the sensory stimulation every time you have sex so it won’t be boring. Use music to stimulate his hearing or talk to him during sex, describe your feelings to him in detail, ignite his sense of smell with burning essential oils, and apply perfume so that he can appreciate the natural and sweet body fragrance you exude when you are excited. Caress with different materials, such as your hair, decorative feathers, scarves or fingers; use food, champagne and all parts of your body to please his taste buds.

Dare to say "no" in a kind way

It is impossible for people to have sex or think about having sex at any time. Everyone's sexual desire is affected by hormone levels, stress and health conditions. If you're in bed and just want to sleep, it's better to say "no" than to pretend. You can honestly say "I'm so tired, I just want to cuddle" or "I don't feel any emotions at all, I don't know why", and that's enough to make him understand that you are rejecting sex and not rejecting him.

In terms of married life, when you feel unsatisfied or are in a bad mood for some reason, you can communicate through simpler language. You can also give each other some simple hugs, kisses, etc. These will have a good effect on enhancing the relationship between husband and wife.