What to do if you can't think before you speak

Everyone may have encountered a similar phenomenon in life, that is, some people do not think when they speak, and some words come out of their mouths. In fact, this situation is very common. If you want to improve this situation, you need to think more and restrain yourself more. If you don’t change, it is very likely that you will hurt others because of a word, which will not only lead to the breakdown of friendship between friends.

Be careful when speaking sensitive matters; too much talk is useless

You should use your brain when speaking, be careful when talking about sensitive matters, and don't talk too much. Your mouth is just a loudspeaker. You must pay attention to monitor and control the FM knob and volume control switch at ordinary times, otherwise you will bring yourself a lot of trouble.

When speaking, don't just think about having a good time and talking without thinking that people are smiling at you because they appreciate you. Don't keep talking about your innermost thoughts. As a result, people will know everything about you and will laugh at you behind your back.

Don't rush to draw conclusions when something happens. Even if you have an answer, you should wait. There may be a better solution. There will be different answers from different perspectives. You should learn to think from the perspective of others. Especially when you encounter troubles, you must learn to wait and rely on others. In many cases, not only will the troubles be resolved, but good luck may also come.

Make big things small, and small things nothing

We must learn to make big things small and small things disappear, handle complicated things as simply as possible, and never complicate simple things. Mastering work efficiency is a science and you need to control the rhythm.

You must be tolerant towards villains. If you take a step back, you will have a broader horizon. If it really doesn't work, give them your own space and let them be intoxicated like singing birds and dancing swallows.

Don't comment on anyone

There is no love or hate without reason in this world. Don't participate in commenting on anyone. Just keep it in mind.

The reason why it is said that the final judgment is made is very simple: some people act too hastily. No one has a theoretical basis to define good people and bad guys. It is actually a matter of interest.

Establishing a moral bottom line

When doing things, you must set a moral bottom line beforehand. Thieves also know that there are some things that absolutely cannot be stolen. So, you must never do anything to the extreme. Never do anything to take advantage of others. Giving others a way out is equivalent to moving forward yourself.

For those who often cause trouble to you or even bully you, you should be tolerant if you can. There is no need to always be at odds with a bully, but you must save up your grudges for him. When new and old grudges accumulate, justice and truth will belong to you.

Then, when the opportunity arises, you must teach him a lesson thoroughly, and within the authority granted by the law, beat him to death, so that the kid will always remember: except for your father, no one will tolerate your bad habits.

Some people are used to taking advantage of you. Small-minded people are narrow-minded, while big-hearted people are generous. If you have a chance, you should cheat them big time and make them bleed. This will also let them remember: there is no such thing as a free lunch in the world, and there is no such thing as a free advantage for you to make.

It is easy to dodge a spear, but hard to guard against an arrow from the dark

It is easy to dodge an open attack, but hard to guard against a hidden arrow. The villains who plot against you behind your back will never disappear. This is a Chinese characteristic. Villains should not be offended, but also should not be forgiven. This is an eternal truth. After all, villains also have a small side. You must be steady, accurate and ruthless when dealing with such people. You can pretend nothing happened.

The world is at peace and everything is going well. Then, we will use the strategy of repairing the plank road in the open while secretly attacking Chencang, and fight poison with poison, to let the kid know: not everyone can be a villain. It takes a certain level to be a good person, and being a villain is also difficult.