The dangers of high school students falling in love

Everyone has puberty, during which hormone secretion is particularly vigorous. During this period, boys and girls will be curious about each other, and will test each other ignorantly. This situation is particularly prominent in high school. Living and studying in the same environment every day, it is inevitable that they will be curious and have a good impression of each other. They will blindly establish a romantic relationship with someone before they can tell whether it is a good impression or a love. However, in high school, academic studies should be the priority, and falling in love will inevitably distract some of your energy. Let's talk about the dangers of high school students falling in love.

The dangers of high school students falling in love: distracting their attention and affecting their studies. Premature love has ruined the academic performance of many excellent students and destroyed the future of many children. Among the teenagers who fall in love prematurely, there are many who have excellent academic performance and are outstanding. However, because of premature love, they are overly curious, excited, obsessed, and overly indulged in the fantasy of love, and can no longer devote themselves to study wholeheartedly. In fact, learning is like rowing against the current. If you don't move forward, you will fall behind. If a student studies several subjects at the same time every day, there is no guarantee that he will get excellent results even if he studies very hard.

The dangers of high school students falling in love: emotional impulse will sow bitter fruits. Usually, love and sex are inextricably linked. After boys and girls fall in love, they spend the whole day alone together. They may go out for outings in pairs or go in and out of the cinema freely. Love scenes will become the focus of their attention and imitation, especially actions such as kissing and hugging between men and women in movies and TV shows, which will stimulate the emotional impulses of boys and girls. Strong sexual impulses often make them lose their minds and engage in sexual behavior without considering the consequences. Once the physical and psychological defenses are broken, premarital sex begins. When values, moral norms and life experience are not yet able to effectively control instinctive desires, early sexual behavior will cause adolescents to indulge in sexual pleasure and ignore the resulting adverse psychological and physiological consequences. Due to the lack of sexual knowledge, the resulting physiological consequence - pregnancy often wipes out the romantic and stubborn atmosphere of early love, and is replaced by fear and confusion for both parties after sexual intercourse. Since a girl's body and mind are not yet fully developed, premarital sex will inevitably sow bitter fruits. Our country's moral concepts and public opinion cannot tolerate teenage pregnancy. As a result, some girls, fearing that others would find out and too embarrassed to explain to their teachers and parents, pretend to be sick and secretly go to a hospital far away from home to have an abortion. After the operation, they cannot get enough rest, causing great harm to their bodies. Some girls even died after buying drugs to have an abortion on their own. Some girls, after the fact was exposed, felt so embarrassed by the beatings and scolding from their parents, the punishment from the school, and the cold eyes and ridicule from their classmates that they committed suicide. It can be seen that the result of premature love is often that girls become the ultimate victims.

The harm of high school students falling in love: it weakens their will and affects their morale. In school, if a boy and girl fall in love in a class, it will cause all kinds of reactions. Some people make premature love events the focus of discussion after school and after dinner, inquiring into the whereabouts and private activities of those in love, spreading the news and making fun of each other, thus diverting everyone's interest and attention in learning. Some even envy, yearn for, and follow the example of others, actively looking for and seeking friends of the opposite sex, which affects the school's atmosphere.

In addition, male and female students who fall in love prematurely are keen to be alone with their lovers. In order to avoid being seen, they often go to secluded alleys where there are no acquaintances, stay together with their lovers, and hate being disturbed by others. If things go on like this, this world of two will gradually become isolated from the masses. They will rarely interact normally with most classmates in the class, gradually form a gap with the group and classmates, and push themselves into an isolated position.